In today's world, so many people strive for a state of consciousness that is governed by vital energy and creative impulses, rather than by lethargic moods and unsatisfied passions. There are a variety of ways to experience a more pronounced “life drive” again. An extremely powerful possibility is often excepted Pay attention to the development of our own sexual energy.
How sex energy is wasted in today's world
In this context, our sexual energy is often equated with our own life energy. Also, sexual energy is often associated with an essential aspect, which in turn is of the utmost importance to our own health. Basically, I can absolutely agree with this from my own experience and now I see sexual energy as an important aspect that can not only help you to learn more about yourself, but can also enrich your own life immensely. Here we are not just talking about a targeted use of our own sexual energy, but also about increasing it. For that matter, in today's world, some people are also very careless with their own sexual energy. For example, one is constantly looking for new sexual adventures and delights in having different partners in short periods of time, or one falls due to innumerable stimuli, which in turn are present everywhere in today's world (at every corner we are confronted with half-naked women and men confronted, sometimes apart from the very present and for almost everyone, directly retrievable, pornography - sexual overstimulation), a circumstance in which one devotes oneself to one's own "pleasure" every day.
Self-centered attachment to a spiritual practice is no less problematic than, for example, craving for excessive sexual indulgence. – Daisetz Teitaro Suzuki..!!
Admittedly, if a person wants to have constantly changing partners or even indulges in their own sexual pleasure every day, then there is absolutely nothing reprehensible about it, especially since every person firstly has their own experiences and secondly has free will and can also pursue it completely.
Minimizing our own sexual energy
Ultimately, I don't want to get at that at all or only to a limited extent, it should be more about the fact that you rob yourself of your own life energy by over-acting your own sex drive, no matter how absurd that may sound to one or the other. But with every sexual act, be it masturbation or partnered sexuality (especially if this takes place without love, but more on that in the following sections), or to put it more precisely, with every orgasm, an enormous amount of life energy is released. And this release of life energy is often wasted instead of being used or consciously experienced (by the way, this effect is much more pronounced in men due to ejaculation). On the one hand we therefore waste our own sexual energy, for example through daily intercourse (too often - if this is practiced without love), through daily masturbation and on the other hand we reduce our own sexual energy to a minimum (which is in no way bad is, there is no wrong and no right). For example, people who masturbate on a daily basis, which is part of many people's lives in today's world due to the aforementioned excessive exposure to pornography & sexuality, experience only a greatly diminished orgasm over time (a phenomenon which is also more pronounced in the male sex), i.e. these people then experience only a minimally developed sexual energy in their lives, which in turn has some disadvantages. On the one hand, this gnaws at your own charisma and, on the other hand, you put a strain on your own organism, because the resulting lack of energy favors the manifestation of various diseases (which of course does not mean that you become ill after a short time as a result). . In a nutshell, this practice dulls you in a way and robs you of your own sexual energy. If you yourself are abstinent over a longer period of time, then this can bring a tremendous boost, i.e. you feel much more energetic, alert, more concentrated and as a result you experience a much better charisma, yes, from my own experience I can even do it say that this abstinence can work wonders in one's own thinking (there are now also countless testimonials from people who also feel the same way - apart from the fact that the increase in one's own sexual energy through abstinence, in the teachings of many "yogis" and co . is rooted).
At this point it should also be said that this abstinence has nothing to do with religious dogmas, but is much more about self-control, increasing one's own sexual energy and spiritual growth. Sexual energies need to flow as well, which is why it is important not only to increase these energies, but also to release them. Nevertheless, if we ourselves only feel minimal sexual energy and we also have hardly any inner drive to live, for example because we live out sexual overactivity, which does not happen with love but is purely instinctual, then it can be very inspiring to be yourself to practice abstinence for a period of time. Relationships in which, for example, mutual sexual interest has completely disappeared or one no longer finds the partner sexually attractive simply because it has become a habit, benefit immensely from practicing abstinence for a few weeks..!!
Ultimately, this gives you a much more pronounced sexual energy and you can then make use of this energy. On the one hand, by generally having more life energy and drive, which means that you can accomplish significantly more in life, and on the other hand, by using this energy during sexual intercourse or targeted "masturbation" to implement corresponding projects. Here one also likes to speak of sexual magic.
The incredible potential of your own sexual energy
This means that you increase your own sexual energy over a longer period of time and use a subsequent release of energy, which is then much stronger due to the abstinence, to fulfill a wish. It is not self-satisfaction in the usual sense, but much more a ritual procedure, a targeted use of one's own energy. You would then not come directly during “masturbation”, but let your own energy increase to a maximum, even during this practice. One concentrates on a corresponding wish, or even on a physically ailing area, or on something completely different. With your own thoughts you control your own pent-up energy. Instead of just coming and enjoying the feeling, you direct this released energy to the appropriate areas or to the manifestation of a wish, or even to one of the seven main chakras (which is of course also an extremely nice feeling). Since the feeling is quite explosive due to the longer abstinence, the effect is also many times stronger. You are then energetically fully charged and you can feel your own sexual energy flowing through every cell of your own body. Ultimately, this method can also be carried out with a partner, which is of course many times more effective. It's not just about sex, it's primarily about accumulating energies in order to be able to initiate healing through strong sexual energies. Here one also likes to speak of spiritual sexuality. Instead of practicing sex purely out of the drive or even out of the thought of wanting to reproduce, a union is in the foreground. Of course, this also necessarily requires deep and heartfelt love, otherwise this practice would not be possible, because deep love is the basis here.
Thinking is the basis of everything. It is important that we catch each of our thoughts with the eye of mindfulness. – Thich Nhat Hanh..!!
At the end of the day, nothing compares to this practice either. Spiritual sex, i.e. when two people love each other with all their hearts, consciously enter into this union and do not have pure instinct gratification in mind, but spiritual growth, the experience of highest ecstasy, the feeling of deep love and the use of shared sexual energy, triggers indescribable feelings and can be healing for the whole organism. You can also practice this for hours, because the main focus is not on the orgasm, on the contrary, it is much more about feeling the deep connection and experiencing an increase in sexual energies. If there were then again an orgasm, if necessary a joint orgasm, then this would be a tremendous explosion of energies, which does not have a consuming effect, but rather has a charging effect. Well then, of course, it should be said at this point that the opposite sexual experiences also have their uses and also represent a part of our development process (as already mentioned often, opposite experiences are important).
One could write entire books on the subject. This is exactly how you can look at the topic of sexual energy from a wide variety of perspectives. There are also countless exciting reports, methods and content that show you completely new perspectives, which is why I can recommend the topic and the associated research + application to everyone..!!
As I said, we humans all have our experiences, but it is very empowering for one's spiritual and emotional well-being if one eventually gets to this point and experiences a corresponding union (or sex magic, abstinence and an increase in one's sexual energy). Sexuality can be something very special, even sacred, that can consciously let us experience whole new levels of being. In this sense stay healthy, happy and live a life in harmony. 🙂
well explained thank you.